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Monday, 3 April 2017

9 Months Of Pregnancy In 4 Minutes

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This video shows in just four minutes how a child arrives in this world, from conception to birth. The clip offers a 3D visualization of the development of an embryo in the mother’s womb, and will be interesting for both men and women to watch. Incidentally, as little as 20 years ago we could only have dreamed of making this kind of film, for in those days the technology to make an ultrasound image of the inside of the uterus did not exist.

Sunday, 17 January 2016

He Didnt Love Me, He Wanted to Control Me

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships

I am Christian woman, and about three years ago I was in a really low time. I didn’t really think a lot about marriage and meeting anyone. I was trusting that it would happen, and just put it in God’s hands.  I suppose I was looking for direction to what was the next step and at that moment I met my ex.

The first thing I would like to say is it is very important to trust to your first instincts.  When I first met my ex I had reservations, but thought maybe I was wrong so I allowed friendship.  He pursued me which of course I liked and very soon I found myself in a relationship before I had really got to know him.  There were times early in the friendship when he would say things to me that I thought were wrong but because he was from another culture I did not challenge him about it.  I also did not see him all the time as we lived in different countries and I would visit every few months.

Early on, he started to show aggressive behavior towards me if I did not do what he wanted. He also would remove affection, which left me feeling very confused.  He would then blame me that I was the cause of our problems.  This happened a lot and over time I began to doubt myself even though deep down I knew the truth.  I did at moments try to challenge his behavior in a gentle way but this was quashed and I became completely controlled by him in pretty much every way. Taking our relationship to levels I was not happy with and giving him money.  I did try many times to leave the relationship but each time he would tell me he would change, it was always temporary.  There were moments when I was scared.


Fortunately, I made some real friends who really helped me.  They helped me to see that this behavior was not right and that he did not love me. He liked what I gave him; sex (which I felt awful about) and the money.  In essence I was his meal ticket.  Eventually I had the strength to end the relationship and stay out of it.

In the last year I have had time to think about everything and why I allowed stuff to happen.  To be honest I can see that I made many mistakes, I lied to my myself as I wanted to believe he loved me.  I hope that my story will help any women in similar situations.  There is a fallacy that says an abused woman is a weak woman, but I am a successful woman.  In an abusive relationship the control comes gradually.  I hope that if there are any women in a relationship that the partner belittles you, criticizes you, shows cruelty or tries to dominate that you realize this is not love but rather control.  Do not feel that you have to be with him out of fear which is why I stayed in the relationship so long.

Monday, 4 January 2016

Men Prefer a Pretty Face for a Long-term Relationship

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
New research conducted on college students from the University of Texas suggests men prefer a good body over a pretty face for short-term companionship.

However, if they desire a long-term relationship, then a pretty face becomes more valued.

A woman’s body generally provides cues about her state of fertility while her face gives insight into her long-term reproductive value, according to previous research. The new findings suggest men seeking a short-term relationship have psychological adaptations to look for partners who are fertile and can produce offspring.

“Men’s priorities shift depending on what they want in a mate, with facial features taking on more importance when a long-term relationship is the goal,” says Jaime Confer, who co-authored the research.

“Mating is central to the engine of natural selection. This research helps clarify people’s preference.”

Women showed no significant difference in their interest in faces or bodies when looking for short-term or long-term mates, according to the study published this month in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior.

Previous research has examined the qualities that make faces and bodies attractive, such as symmetry and waist-to-hip ratio. But this is the first study to experimentally analyze the relative importance of faces and bodies as whole components.



As part of the study, 375 college students were shown an image of another person, whose face and body was hidden, who was described as either a potential short-term or long-term mate. The participants had the option of looking at either head or body, but not both.

Twenty-five percent of men who were told to consider the mate as a long-term partner looked at their potential partner’s body.

In contrast, 51 percent of those who were told to consider her as a short-term partner chose to look her body.

Confer and her colleagues are considering follow-up research in which participants will be asked if they want to see the faces or bodies of potential rivals who may be stealing their mates.

That could help reveal if men and women feel more threatened by a pretty face or a good body.

Because the research was conducted exclusively on college students, the results may not generalize to the broader population. For instance, adults older than college-age students may not exhibit these differences at all, or as strongly.

Source: University of Texas Austin

Thursday, 31 December 2015

6 Phrases Jamaican Guys Use to BreakUP with Women

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Think your breakup was painful? Check out what others had to go through.


6. I’m Just Not Ready Yet

We are all very familiar with this line, it is only a guy beating around the bush because he just can’t say “I don’t want you anymore”. This line might come in the forms of “It’s not you it’s me”, “You’re special to me But I need time”, “I can’t commit yet but if I had to, you’d be the one”. It’s only a way for a guy to tell you he wants to be with other women and not get exclusive with just one girl. Find someone who cherishes You.

5. We Can Still Be Friends

This line comes when the guy still wants you around but doesn’t want to commit with you. It happens when He’s unsure if he’ll find someone else and he needs you to be there as backup when he fails, these words May sound harsh but they’re the reality of how it is. Choose your self-respect and say no to being friends.

4. You Can Do So Much Better


This is yet another word for him to nicely tell you he’s over you and he wants you to think he’s not the right person For you. These type of reverse psychology phrases are very common among guys who are too scared to just Tell you they never loved you and they’re tired of seeing you everyday. But they’re right, you really can do so much Better than them, better than a person who can’t even spell out their true feelings and don’t have the guts to say What they feel.


3. You Are Great & Beautiful, But…

The horrid but of destruction comes into play when the guy has met someone better looking than you and He feels like he deserves to be with that person. This happens when the guy you’re with is insanely superficial, That he gives priority on looks over feelings, you shouldn’t be sad though because you’re better off without That person. Beauty fades away, feelings live forever, and someone who can’t cherish your feelings doesn’t Deserve to be with you.

2. I Have A Fear Of Commitment

This means that the guy is immature and not worth your time. Guys who “fear commitment” are the ones who Want to try their luck with every possible girl they see and they don’t want to be stuck with just one girl forever. You need to let them go, show them how immature they are and find someone who isn’t afraid to hold your Hand tight and show the world.

1. I Need Some Time Off

It means the guy either found someone else or was hiding something from you and doesn’t want you to know And insult him. Don’t get me wrong, taking time off is normal in certain situations where you two either go Through a huge fight or when the guy wants to talk his feelings out and he just wants to figure out how to, but In most cases it just means they’re over you and they want you to drift away yourself.

Monday, 28 December 2015

6 Dating Tips for Women from Men

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1. Do your own thing. Don’t let a man become the center of your universe.

If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered! Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing. Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.”  Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends. Don’t lose the things that are most important to you, and keep doing what you were doing before you started dating him.

2. Don’t overindulge on a date. 

While you might think it cute to have three glasses of wine at dinner, he does not. Let him get to know you as you are. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. Also, order a real dinner. One guy told us that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then every time he cut a piece of chicken on his plate, she reached over and ate it! Best to leave your glass half full and your plate empty(ish).


3. Some men ARE afraid of commitment (so they might need a little more time than you to decide if you’re the one).

Even if a guy is relationship ready, if you bring up on date three that you’re ready for a relationship he’ll likely question whether you really want to be in a relationship with HIM or if you’re ready for a relationship with anyone. He’s going to wonder how after two dinners and one museum trip you already know that you want him to be your boyfriend. So even though it’s great to let a new guy know where you are in your life or about your dating goals, take the time to get to know him before you decide. (We recommend that you hold that conversation until at least date three or four). As a result, he’ll feel a whole lot better about the possibility of having a relationship if you give him a little time. Don’t rush the getting-to-know-each-other part. Not only is this phase of dating exciting, but it also allows you time to “data date” and collect the information you need to determine if he’s boyfriend material AND someone you want to be in a relationship with.


4. Don’t call us all the time. Let us call you. 

If you’re consistently calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, a man won’t have to lift a finger. Let the communication be balanced. This is not to say that you can’t ever reach out to a man you’re dating, but let him do the asking out–at least in the early stages. If you’re both interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the amount of communication. If you feel like you may be guilty of over-calling, take a break and see if he comes back and puts in the effort. If so, wonderful. And if not? Move on, sister! You deserve someone who wants to reach out to you, call you, and ask you out.


5. Don’t assume you are exclusive.

As scary as it may seem to talk to your man about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing other people. Words are helpful, and you should use them sometimes. So he tells you he wants to introduce you to his sister? Awesome! Still doesn’t mean you’re exclusive. Try something like, “You know, I’d really like not to see other people. How do you feel about that?” If he gives you an answer you aren’t looking for, buh-bye. And if he gives you a yes, fantastic! Go for it!

6. Men aren’t all the same, so give them a chance!

As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen to your best guy friend’s advice, not all men are the same. So even though these dating tips from men can be very helpful, men are ultimately individuals. Let them show up and show you how much they’re interested!

Thursday, 24 December 2015

5 things that only TRUE LOVE can teach you

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1. SMALL THINGS DON’T BOTHER YOU ANYMORE

When a person is content, they realize there is no point in losing something so perfect over petty issues. Things that would bother you otherwise or in your past with your exes, they will not even matter to you anymore.

You will be shocked, I was. I was shocked to see how my thinking and acceptance of my partners seemed so right.

So you see, true love is everything you don’t and do expect. It will surprise you and will shock you to your bones. It will teach you and it will give you something to teach others. It will help you be a better person and a better partner. Seek for it, it will be worth it. It will be worth every damn try and every bad experience in your life.

2. YOU BECOME HUMBLE

True love is surprisingly very satisfying and makes you feel content with life. When you experience such a great feeling of contentment, you realize how lucky you are and how unfortunate those people are who do not find true love in someone or something. You learn being more humble towards them and become more generous eventually. For you have what others don’t, so you give more to others as you feel you receive more than you could have ever asked for.



3. YOU BECOME PATIENT

A lot of our patience is usually taken up by our relationship if we are not having a healthy relationship. This causes us to be moody and a lot less patient in our lives with other people.
When you are in true love, your patience is not being tested to that limit so you have a lot of it left for others.

4. YOU START BEING MORE POSITIVE

Colors seem brighter, and the grass looks greener. You feel like every wrong thing in your life went wrong only so you can be with this special person. I have often found myself thanking life for being harsh on me before I met my true love because if I would have been stuck there, I would have never been able to find this amazing person. All the imperfections of life start to seem PERFECT



5. IT MAKES YOU A HAPPIER PERSON

You will realize, once you are in love, that you have never been this happy. When it’s just infatuation and not true love, you do feel happy but only initially, soon that happiness wears off and you are stuck there thinking what is wrong with the two of you. Let me tell you, true love is all of that happiness FOREVER. You are just happier and everything seems perfect.

Tuesday, 15 December 2015

10 SIGNS YOU’VE FOUND A KEEPER

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HERE ARE 10 SIGNS YOU’VE FOUND A KEEPER


1. THEY ARE KIND AND LOVING.
We generally regard a good person as someone who wants to do good for others. Someone who will help a stray animal or an elderly person who is struggling to open a jar instantly makes us feel appreciation for their kind behavior.

In a study on factors that people universally find attractive, competence and warmth were the two most desirable traits. Of course you would want your partner to be intelligent, but warmth is desirable because we want the person that we love to have our best interests at heart.

2. YOU HAVE COMMON INTERESTS.
You need to have the right things in common. When you think about what’s most important to you, your partner should feel the same ways about those things. These are most likely your values, beliefs, and morals but they may include religion and political party affiliation as well.

In a study in Personality and Individual Differences, researchers identified several factors that are important for couples to have in common. They found that we tend to gravitate toward people who come from a similar region as us, have a similar social status, have similar overall health, have similar education and have similar desire for children. It would seem that likes do attract more than opposites.

3. THEY CAN MAKE YOU LAUGH.
Who doesn’t enjoy a good belly laugh? If the two of you have shared jokes and can have fun even in stressful situations, you are a lucky person to have found this keeper. They’ll keep you smiling in your relationship and you’ll be a happy couple. If you can also make them laugh, so much the better.

Fun is important for couples who stay together. It’s common sense that couples who have more fun and play have happier relationships, but the research also supports this. You can read more about what happy couples do to improve their relationships here.

4. THEY KNOW THEIR FLAWS.
Being self-aware and looking to improve on one’s flaws are great traits to find in a keeper. No one can be perfect all the time so being able to see your own faults and work on fixing them is a wonderful quality.



5. THEY HAVE INTEGRITY.
Being honest to a fault is a sign of a keeper. Most people actually lie many times a day, often in little ways that help other people to feel good about themselves. Your keeper might tell a small white lie about that whether or not that color really does look good on you, but they would never lie about the important things like finances, health, fidelity, or whether or not they ate the last of the ice cream.

6. YOU ARE JUST DIFFERENT ENOUGH.
You don’t want to be in a romantic relationship with someone who is exactly like you because what’s different about each of you is what keeps things interesting. You are similar enough in what’s important, but different enough to have separate tastes, skills, hobbies and opinions.

7. THEY’RE SUPPORTIVE OF YOU BUT HAVE THEIR OWN ASPIRATIONS.
You’ve found a keeper if they are the right balance of supporting you in your dreams but yet they won’t sacrifice their own goals in the process. They want to help you start your own business but also complete their MBA rather than dropping everything to be at your beck and call.

8. THEY COMMUNICATE VERY WELL.
A relationship keeper needs to know how to communicate effectively. If your potential romantic match can articulate their feelings and needs so that you understand them, you’ll be able to provide for those needs and have a better relationship.

In addition to speaking well, your partner should be a great listener. They need to be able to understand your needs and feelings as well. You can read more about how listening helps couples stay together here. If the conversation is a two-way street when you talk, your partner might be a keeper.

9. THEY CAN COMPROMISE.
If you both fight over the remote control all the time, this will not end well. Your partner is a keeper if they can give a little to get a little. Maybe they let you have the remote while you watch your favorite show as long as you’ll let them watch theirs that’s on afterwards.




10. THEY MAKE YOU WANT TO BE A BETTER PERSON.
Someone who inspires you to greatness is a definite keeper. You know that you will learn and grow as a person while you are with them. Being with someone who helps you to be a better person is a great relationship to be in. Not only do they love you but they are your mentor as well. They give you guidance to make smart choices without choosing for you. If you can picture yourself thanking them in an acceptance speech, then you’ve found a keeper.

Saturday, 12 December 2015

9 Things You Should Never Be Ashamed Of During Sex

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
1. Strange Sounds
You know that awkward tummy fart that happens when an air pocket comes between you and your partner and creates a very obvious "PFFFFFFFT" noise? Or when you queef? Or when the sexy moan you thought was going to come out turns into a dinosaur noise? Even at its hottest, sex is still a very primal activity, and the noises that come with it aren't always as romantic as we'd like them to be. Unless you're literally blowing raspberries with your mouth with each thrust, there's no reason to be embarrassed about any sounds that happen during sex.


2. How Long It Takes You To Come

If you are faking orgasms because it takes you a while to achieve a real one, stop. While the general range of time it takes a woman to reach her big O is 10 to 20 minutes, and the average time for men is 7 to 14 minutes, there really is no "normal" when it comes to coming. So whether you need an hour or a minute to climax, just relax, enjoy the ride, and help your partner get off if they still haven't. If your timing is affecting your sex life, though, there's nothing wrong with trying out new techniques to change things up a bit.


3. Not Being Able To Get Aroused

Some guys have a hard time getting it up, some women have a hard time getting wet, and none of those people have anything to be embarrassed about. Many times, our bodies and brains aren't connected sexually, and you might feel a little betrayed by your genitals when your heart is saying, "yes," but your nether regions are saying, "no thanks." For women, the problem can often be fixed with some more foreplay and lube, and plenty of men find that masturbating for a minute is a good way to get themselves hard. But if your body's lack of cooperation is making things too difficult, don't worry about having to postpone your sexy time for another day. Though, if it's a regular occurrence, consider seeing a doctor to find out if there's an underlying medical problem.


4. Not Being Able To Orgasm

As much as we all want to orgasm during sex, it sometimes just doesn't happen. But before you even think about faking it — Really, I see you thinking about it. Stop — consider changing how you view the goal of sex. Blame it on society, porn, or anything else you'd like, but a lot of us have really been conditioned to think that an orgasm is the reason to get down and dirty. Don't get me wrong, it's a nice perk, but when you start to think of the goal of sex as a way to become closer with your partner, try new things, or just have fun, it becomes much easier to relax during the act. Not getting to the summit of your sexual mountain is nothing to be ashamed of; it's the climb that counts.

5. Farting

Look, when your legs are spread, there's stuff happening down under, and you're not completely focused on holding things in, it's pretty much a miracle if a little toot doesn't squeak out. It's ok to feel a little embarrassed over passing gas in the heat of the moment (but don't blow your bum trumpet as hard as you can, obviously) as long as you don't let it ruin everything else that's going on. Besides, a little wind downstairs is a sign of a healthy digestive system, and that's pretty sexy. Right? Right?


6. Saying "No"

There are thousands of things that can happen during sex, and you can turn down any and all of them at any point you want. It doesn't make you a prude, and it doesn't make you boring. Maybe it's something you're not ready for just yet, or maybe it's something you'll never be ready for, but no matter what, your boundaries should never make you feel like less of a person. If your partner can't accept your own sexual preferences, then they don't deserve to see your hot body naked anyway.









7. Hair

Full disclosure: If a hair on my body is not an eyelash, an eyebrow, or on my scalp, I want it gone. In fact, I used to be straight-up obsessed with making sure that I was the posterchild for a Venus commercial before coming anywhere close to taking my pants off. So it took a while for me to understand that if my pubes were only slightly prickly when it came time to get busy, it was really not a big deal. No matter how you groom your pubes (or if you prefer to let them grow wild and free), it should never be a cause of embarrassment during sex. Of course, if you and your partner differ when it comes to hair quantity preferences, it's always good to talk it over and see if you can reach a compromise ... or if this is just a sexual relationship that isn't going to work out. But never allow anyone, including yourself, make you feel bad for something your body grows naturally.


8. How You Orgasm

Acknowledging that I both look and sound like a velociraptor when I climax was an awkward but necessary part of my sexual growth. I don't know if there's a magic number when it comes to the radius of your back's arc or the decibels of your moan when you orgasm, but if there is, I'm definitely not hitting it. Screw it, though — your O is your time to let loose and express your ecstasy the way you want to. So scrunch up your face, roar like an angry bear, hell, do a tapdance if you want, but when your big moment finally arrives, don't hold anything back just because you think it might look a little weird.


9. Your Body

If somebody is having sex with you, they probably think you are really, super hot. We all have things we want to change about our appearance, whether it's having more or less fat, the shape of our nose, or that birthmark that kind of looks like a dragon, but not enough to make people think you have magical powers. But here's the thing: The person you are sleeping with also has their own insecurities, and they're things you probably don't even notice or care about. If somebody's evolved brain is instinctively telling them that you'd be a great person to reproduce with (or even if you've never had sex in your life), tell your insecurities to eff off. People aren't lying when they say that confidence is the sexiest trait you can have.


This is How Often Happy Couples Have Sex

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
A survey of 30,000 adults over four decades concluded that sex once a week is the optimum regularity— and more frequent sex won't actually make a difference, reports The Society of Personality and Social Psychology.

Overworked, sleep-deprived couples can breathe a sigh of relief, as lead researcher Amy Muise told the SPSP, "Our findings suggest that it's important to maintain an intimate connection with your partner, but you don't need to have sex every day as long as you’re maintaing that connection." In other words, a happy sex life is about quality, not quantity.

Interestingly, the study had different findings about the sexual wellness of single folks: Unlike people in relationships, there is no association between sexual frequency and wellbeing for single people. The researchers suggested this difference is due to the increased variables involved in a single person’s sex life, such as how comfortable a person is having sex outside of relationships and the circumstances of those encounters (one-night stands, ongoing "friends with benefits" arrangements, a solo poly lifestyle, etc.).

The study also debunked some long-standing stereotypes about sexytimes: Men do not, in fact, want sex more than women, nor are older people having less sex. Muise explained, "Our findings were consistent for men and women, younger and older people, and couples who had been married for a few years or decades."

So keep this data in your back pocket the next time your lover complains that the two are in the midst of a dry spell—once should be enough!

Sunday, 22 November 2015

9 Ways To Trigger Intense Pleasure In a Man

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1) The Outside of His Lower Lip
The male mouth is an obvious hot zone. But zeroing in on that slope between his outside lower lip and chin will bring ultraintense bliss to his kisser. We've discovered that this tiny, delicate curve is packed with extrasensitive nerve receptors, says Lou Paget, author of The Big O and a certified sex educator.

How to Do it: While making out, suck his lower lip into your mouth. Use the tip of your tongue to stroke up and down mere millimeters below it. "That motion stimulates the whole erogenous zone in a teasing way, which will put him on the erotic edge," says Paget. "And by keeping his lower lip inside yours, you magnify the sensation. It'll feel as if electric currents are shooting from his mouth straight to his member."


2) The Front of His Neck
Women tend to pay oral attention to the sides of his neck between his ear and his collar — but it turns out they're missing the major stimulation spot: just below his Adam's apple. "The thyroid, a butterfly-shaped gland about halfway down the front of his neck, is closely linked to the sex organs, according to ancient Chinese medicine," says reflexologist Master Mantak Chia, author of Sexual Reflexology (To own a copy of this book then click here).

How To Do it : Have your guy lie on his back with a pillow plumped behind his head so his neck is exposed and slightly arched forward. Warm him up by brushing your wet lips against the hollow of his throat. Next, run the soft flat of your tongue straight up until you're licking his Adam's apple. The thyroid is just beneath it; dip down and pause here and massage the area in wide circular motions with your tongue. "Teasing him in circles ensures that you excite the entire thyroid, so he gets maximum pleasure," says Chia. He'll be so hot and bothered, he'll gurgle your name in gratitude.


3) His Nipples
You know that your nipples are a carnal command center. Yet experts found your guy's headlights might be even more sensitive, since most men aren't used to having these sexy switches lavished with attention. "For a lot of men, their nipples are uncharted territory — an erogenous zone they haven't experimented with," explains Britton. Touch them, however, and you'll send shock waves of pleasure radiating through him, she adds.

How to Do it: Our ultimate manipulation trick is called the ice cream swirl. While he's stretched out on his back, "slowly lick in a circle starting outside his areola, circling closer toward the nipple as you would an ice cream cone," says Britton. Keep tantalizing him by zeroing in closer with your tongue. Finally, quickly flick the nipple, then very gently bite it. "Men love when you slowly build up the pressure like that," she says. So don't be afraid to nip him harder than you would like to be.


4) The Dip Under His Ankle
Halfway between his heel and ankle bone is a fingertip-size pressure point that we've learned has enormous passion potential, explains Laura Norman, author of Feet First. "This spot is linked to the sex organs," says Norman. "Pressing it releases energy, producing feelings of pleasure."

How to Do it: Do the deed in the reverse girl-on-top position, so you face his feet. As you sense your guy is getting close to climax, reach forward, grab his ankles and pulse each pressure point in rhythm with your thrusts. He'll blow a gasket in seconds...and playing footsie will never be the same.


5) His Perineum
Most men are shy about guiding you to this patch of skin just past his family jewels. But beneath it is his prostate gland — an organ with major orgasmic power. "A few soft strokes here will bring him to the brink," says Tracey Cox, author of Supersex.

How to Do it: Before he enters you in the missionary position, reach between his legs and lightly tease his entire package. "When your hand is behind his testicles, press your knuckles gently into the smooth flesh," says Cox. Your naughty kneading will bliss him out. Then, knock boots and knead him at the same time. When he's ready to hit the roof, push your knuckles deeper — it'll extend his orgasm, adds Cox.


6) His Shaft
Any nooky novice can make a man sweat by manipulating his entire love muscle. But carnal connoisseurs now know that one specific member-only move on a certain stretch of his little soldier is so scorching, it'll set his desire on fire.

How to Do it: Have your man lie on his back comfortably, then sit between his outstretched legs, facing him. Make two tight rings around his penis with the thumb and index finger of both your hands, placing the rings one on top of the other in the middle of his shaft. Slide the rings in opposite directions, going back and forth from the base to the head simultaneously. "This is a torrid twist on the usual one-handed up-and-down motion," says Cox. "He'll feel incredible friction, especially if you start off torturously slow, building up speed as he gets more and more pumped and then slowing down to keep him in a holding pattern." To make this move even more mind-blowing, squirt some lubricant into your hand.


7)The Head of His Penis
With more pleasure receptors than any other part of his package, this tip of the amorous iceberg is the nexus of male sex nerves. But it's tricky to get the right level of pressure so you send him soaring into ecstasy, not recoiling in sensory overload, says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex (To own a copy of this book. Click Here) ".

How to Do it: Try the "lipstick" trick: With your man lying back and his penis stiffly pointing skyward, hold the base with your fingers (not in a fist) to steady him. Brush your closed yet relaxed lips against his head, rubbing it across your wet mouth as if you were applying lipstick. "Heighten the sensation by opening your lips a bit, rubbing his head between them," advises Keesling. Occasionally take the whole head in your mouth, then go back to rubbing the tip against your lips. He'll feel like he's getting a tighter, wetter version of nooky. Plus, he can watch you work him over — a toe-curling treat for him.


8) The Seam of His Testicles
You know that crinkly crease that separates his boys? Well, it turns out this seam has more passion-packing ability than we thought. "This nerve-rich pleasure trail runs top to bottom along his scrotum," explains Cox. "It isn't touched as often as it should be because not many women — or men — think of it as worthy of attention."

How to Do It: To steam up his seam, you have to take the initiative. But tread lightly, since the area is so sensitive. Cradle his family jewels in one hand, then gently press the first two fingertips of your other hand into the top of the crease (close to where the testicles connect to the base of the penis). Trace downward with both fingers until you reach the bottom of his scrotum. While still toying with his twins, run your fingers back up again. "The two types of in-sync stimulation will really rouse him," says Cox. "He'll never let you get away with overlooking this lusty line again."


9) His Frenulum
The F Spot refers to that tiny knob of flesh underneath the crown of his penis, where the head connects to the shaft. Because it's off the beaten passion path, it doesn't get much amorous attention. But erotic experts and desire divas alike now consider it the booty bull's-eye. "A bundle of nerves meet at this point, so when you touch it, you set off an amazing chain reaction of rapture," says Britton.

How To Do It: This frenulum-friendly maneuver will really flip his switch. While holding his penis steady at the base with one hand, slowly circle your tongue around the crown. Each time you reach his frenulum, give it a few fast flicks with just the stiff tip of your tongue, then return to licking the crown. At the same time, work your hand up and down his shaft. He'll respond with a tsunami of moans and groans...followed by an out-of-this-world climax that's liable to wake the neighbors.

Hands-on. Use your fingertips to trace tiny circles in the center of his palm, then widen them out to the edges of his hand.
Face trace. As the back of his head rests on a cushion, place two fingers on each temple, gently pressing both sides simultaneously.
Back track. With his shirt off, knead the area where his butt meets his spine, pushing firmly into his flesh with each stroke.

Wednesday, 10 June 2015

An Attractive Face Is Preferred Over An Attractive Body For Long-Term Relationships

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships



There’s evidence that when looking for a fling, the body wins over the face on a physical attraction basis. The opposite is true, however, for those who are looking for a long-term relationship partner.

Did You Know: Heartbreak Is Not Just A Metaphor

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
Research has provided evidence that intense, traumatizing events, such as a break-up, divorce, loss of a loved one, physical separation from a loved one, or betrayal can cause real physical pains in the area of one’s heart. This condition is called the Broken Heart Syndrome. Deep emotional distress triggers the brain to distribute certain chemicals that significantly weaken one’s heart, leading to strong chest pains and shortness of breath. The condition is often misdiagnosed as heart attack and tends to affect women more often.

Did You Know: Couples Who Are Too Similar To Each Other Are not Likely To Last

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
As the well-known saying goes, opposites attract. And research proves that this is partially true. Couples that are either too similar or too different tend not to last very long. Apparently, there always has to be a foundation of similarities, but there also have to be things that the two of you learn from each other.

Did You Know: People At The Same Level Of Attractiveness Are More Likely To End Up Together

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
Many psychological and social research indicates that there is a significant pattern in how people choose people to establish romantic relationships with. This pattern is explained by the Matching Hypothesis, which says that people are more attracted to those that they share a level of attractiveness with, or, in other words, are equally socially desirable. Even if successful couples differ in physical attractiveness, one of them usually compensates for it with other socially desirable qualities.

DID You Know: Even Looking At A Picture Of A Loved One Relieves The Pain

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
Even though it was long known that the presence of a significant other has a lot to do with patients’ improvement, it has been proved that the same goes for even a picture of the beloved. The experiment showed that when experiencing pain, study participants exposed to pictures of their beloved and to distracting word games had their pain reduced far more than those exposed to the same distracting word games and pictures of acquaintances.

. DID You Know: Falling In Love Has Neurological Effects Similar To Those Of Cocaine

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
Falling in love is much like taking a dose of cocaine, as both experiences affect the brain similarly and trigger a similar sensation of euphoria. Research found that falling in love produces several euphoria-inducing chemicals that stimulate 12 areas of the brain at the same time.

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

17 things you should know about sex by age 30

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
WITH time and experience our beliefs about love and sex will be constantly evolving; for example, what we knew and believed about love would have changed dramatically from the idealism of the teens and 20s, and by the time we hit mid-life, we should have enough experience to determine what is fact from fiction when it comes to sex.

Below, obstetrician-gynaecologist Dr Anna-Kay Taylor-Christmas shares 17 facts about sex that women should know by the time they hit 30.

1. Sex is not supposed to be painful

Dr Taylor-Christmas said unless it's on purpose, if you or your partner are experiencing pain, a health professional should be seen for a thorough evaluation of the cause. "It may be something simple, such as inadequate relaxation, or a more serious problem in the reproductive organs," she said.

2. Foreplay is very important

The ObGyn said many people are unaware of the need for adequate preparation of the female sexually before penetration. "Take time for arousal," she said.

3. You can get pregnant without penetration

"Once the male ejaculates around or on the vagina or vulva, sperm can ascend the vagina and cause pregnancy," Dr Taylor-Christmas said.

4. Period sex is OK

Dr Taylor-Christmas said sex during menstruation is not harmful or dangerous.

5. Birth control can enhance sex

She explained that when using proper birth control the sexual experience can be enhanced as depending on the method used, the underlying fear and anxiety of unwanted pregnancy is removed.

6. You can get pregnant the first time you have sex

"There is no 'first time bonus' when it comes to pregnancy, as many women have unfortunately found out. So once you have intercourse around your fertile window you can get pregnant," Dr Taylor-Christmas said.

7. Bleeding, bad odour and discharge after sex are not OK

Dr Taylor-Christmas said if you notice unusual bleeding, odour or discharge after sex, see your doctor right away as it may be a sign of an infection or something more serious.

8. Sex organs are not dirty and men are no more sexual creatures than women

"The vagina and penis are not dirty organs once proper personal hygiene is practised. Women enjoy and want sex just as much as men, sometimes more," Dr Taylor-Christmas said.

9. Protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections at all times

Dr Taylor-Christmas said to make sure you and your partner have been tested for common STIs, practise having a single committed sexual partner and use a condom every time if you are uncertain of your or your partner's status.

10. Do not be afraid to get counselling/ sex therapy

"If you are experiencing persistent problems in the bedroom, seek help. Sex is an important part of most committed relationships, so don't neglect it," she said.

11. A healthy lifestyle will improve your sex life

The ObGyn explained that poorly controlled chronic illnesses and general poor health can directly and indirectly impact your sexual well-being. "Ensure that you eat well and exercise," she said.

12. Sex after children should still be enjoyable

"Even though raising children can be quite challenging, making the time for intimacy is very important," Dr Taylor-Christmas said. "Get a babysitter and have some alone time together. Kegel exercises are an excellent way to strengthen and tighten the pelvic floor and vaginal muscles after pregnancy."

13. Withdrawal is the worst form of birth control

"This poses an extremely high risk of pregnancy," she said.

14. Quality sex is always better

Dr Taylor-Christmas said when it comes to sex, quality is more important than duration.

15. Multiple orgasms are not common

"Not every woman can have multiple orgasms, so do not feel inadequate if you can't," she said.

16. Sex during pregnancy can still be safe and enjoyable

Dr Taylor-Christmas said to discuss this with your ObGyn if you have concerns. "Avoid rough sex or positions which are painful. Occasionally, specific conditions in pregnancy may prevent penetrative sex, but other forms of sexual contact may still be possible," she said.

17. Sex forms bonds and relieves stress

The ObGyn said that sex in a loving, committed relationship serves to strengthen the bonds of intimacy with positive psychological effects, partly through the release of the hormone oxytocin. She added that it also acts as a stress reliever.

Monday, 18 May 2015

What Your Sleeping Position Says About Your Relationship

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
#1 The Cliff Hanger
Sleeping on opposite sides of the bed, often facing outwards. Signals distance in the relationship, or if it's seldom, the couple just needs a good night sleep.


#2 The Crab
Various position in the bed, not touching. Signals issues in relationship where one partner needs space and the other needs more intimacy.


#3 Shingles
Man on back, female on back, resting head in crevice of man's shoulder. Woman dependent on man.


#4 Pillow Talk
Face To Face not touching. Need for one on one contact and conversation.


#5 Hollywood
Man on back, woman laying head on man's chest. New relationship.


#6 Lover's Knot
Face to face, legs intertwined for 10 minutes, or until couple falls asleep. Loving independence, intimacy, sexual activity.


#7 Spoon Male Inside
Man needs love and nurturing.


#8 Spoon Female Inside
Male is loving and protective.


#9 Cherish
Back to back touching. Comfortable, intimate, relaxed.


#10 Liberty
Back to back, not touching. Connected yet independent.



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Wednesday, 6 May 2015

8 Signs That tell You Than Your Man Could Be Cheating

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
1. He strays from his predictable everyday behavior.

After spending time with someone for a number of months (or even years), you know their typical behavior. You know how they act in certain situations and when they act differently, you want an explanation—if not cheating, then something else real and tangible.

In this respondent's case, when he started his affair, he would grab his phone and head into the restroom for 20-30 minutes. His excuse: He was "reading email and the news." The only problem was, his phone bill showed something very different.

2. He has unpredictable mood swings.

Being angry in an instant—or being overly nice—is a red flag. There's no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one.

New activities that he goes to all the time (but never mentions afterward) is a glaring example. If he was going somewhere and had no reason to hide it, he would most likely talk about it with you.

"I just need time alone."—while logical, excuses like these are usually without a reason or completely out of the norm for him.



3. He has a rapid change in weight or appearance.

Cheating men change physically. Their love handles disappear, their posture changes and their muscle tone/definition returns. It's the body's primal means of preparing for courtship—he's readying himself to attract a mate.

In addition, cheating men start taking much better care of themselves and take a lot of pride in their appearance. He's suddenly pressing his clothes, coiffing his hair and shaving daily when he didn't before ... especially when leaving the house without you.

4. He has an overnight change in musical taste.

There's nothing wrong with trying new things. But when it's out of the blue and he excludes you from the change, it's a warning sign that something is amiss.

5. He remembers things wrong or loses track of the details.

As he spends more time with both you and his mistress, the memories of his time spent with her and the memories of his time spent with you will start to blur together. Schedules get crossed and he won't be able to keep track of where he was on any given day. The time he spent with another woman is entirely unaccounted for—often, with no explanation.


6. He suddenly needs a lot of privacy.

To take time for one's self is normal. But when it's out of the normal pattern—or is more and more frequent—it's a sign that something else is going in. Going into work early, leaving late, getting off the phone suddenly, taking lots of private calls from a "relative" (mom, sister, someone untrackable) are also red flags.

7. He has a drastic change in sexual appetite and style.

A sudden shift in what's "regular" or familiar in bed—without discussing wanting something new—is a big warning sign of cheating. All the men I interviewed expressed experiencing a huge rush of testosterone, which manifested as a new confidence during sex.

They felt strong, masculine, virile ... like every woman wanted them. Their egos were growing daily.

8. He hides his financial history from you.

Most cheating men will need an untraceable way to pay for things: gifts, meals, hotels, trips, etc. Reloadable credit cards, PayPal accounts, eBay purchases are all great ways to hide large or frequent transactions. Definitely investigate large, random transfers or cash withdrawals. 

Monday, 4 May 2015

20 Romantic Text Messages You Can Send to Your Boyfriend

Posted By: Jamaican Relationships
1. You complete me and therefore i want to tell you thank you. Please don't ever hurt me.

2. Yesterday I did love you, tomorrow I will only think of you. You know what... I love you.

3. If nothing lasts forever, can I be your nothing?

4. It's been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don't believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again.

5. Sometimes my eyes get jealous of my heart. Know why? Because you always remain close to my heart and far from my eyes.

6. When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

7. Before I met you I never knew what it was like; to look at someone and smile for no reason.

8. I wanna write 'miss you' on a rock and throw it at your face so you know how much it hurts to miss you.

9. You're probably asleep but I just wanted to tell you that I love you. You are the reason for my happiness and truly one of the most beautiful persons I have or will ever meet in a long time. Good night. Sleep tight.



10. Good morning sunshine. It's a brand new day. Everything's totally different than what it was yesterday, except one thing: my love for you.

11. It's been so long but when I see you I still get those all too familiar butterflies in my stomach. I love you more with every passing day. Never ever forget that.

12. Every day I wake up with a smile on my face. You are the reason for that smile.

13. Knowing that you are a part of my life makes me feel secure and complete. I feel like I can deal with any obstacle that comes my way as long as I have you, my support-system. You give me immense courage to believe in myself.



14. You are my 'all-in-one' package! Whether it is something that makes me sad or it is news that makes me want to scream with excitement, you are the first person I call. I love how we do everything with a crazy passion, even the way we fight! I love how within five minutes of telling you I don't want to talk to you, I forget all about it 'cuz I remembered something crazy that I just have to share with you! I love how doing everything on my bucket-list is a part of your bucket-list!

15. As clich├ęd as it sounds, you really do make my world go round! You make me laugh when I don't even want to smile; you understand my obsession for random things; you make efforts and bring me the most meaningful things; you're never embarrassed by my madness; I love you for the way you love the real me.

16. In the midst of the most dull things, you make our togetherness insanely fun! Loving you is my most favorite thing to do!

17. With every passing second, I come that much closer to meeting you tonight. Can't wait to be in your arms and kiss you.

18. Every time I close my eyes, I see your sweet face. And whenever I think about us, I can't help but feel content. I am so happy that we have each other, for better or for worse.

19. True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

20. I'm not sure what life could bring you. I'm not sure if dreams do come true. I'm not sure what love can do. But I'm sure about one thing. I love you.
Read more at Buzzle: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/love-text-messages-to-send-to-your-boyfriend.html

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